The first time I visited New York City, the city and I didn’t really click. My visit was solely centred around the top attractions – Times Square, the Statue of Liberty, the shops along Fifth Avenue – and I just ended up feeling overwhelmed by the chaos of it all. On this second trip I wanted to do things differently; since it was Sam’s first time in the Big Apple, we still made sure to cover those iconic New York sights, but we also gave ourselves plenty of down time in the parks and some of the quieter Brooklyn neighbourhoods. Here are some of the highlights:
Walking the High Line
I love it when a city can continue to reinvent itself and repurpose structures that have become obsolete. The High Line was once a set of rail tracks that connected factories and warehouses, allowing for the easy distribution of food products. It was cleverly designed above street level, so that goods like milk, meat, and produce could be transported and unloaded without disrupting traffic below. However, over time these rail tracks lost their purpose. They lay in complete abandon until 2006, when plans were made to turn this space into an urban park. Today, there’s a wooden boardwalk where trains once ran, and the space is lined with all kinds of vegetation.
Playing Board Games at Bryant Park
During my very first trip to New York City several years ago, I felt a little claustrophobic and like there was no escape from the masses. However, during this second trip I found a lot of green spaces and quiet pockets where I could relax; Bryant Park being one of them. The thing I particularly loved about this park is that they have free board games for families and friends to enjoy. Little tables with umbrellas have been up, and you can sit down for a game of chess, scrabble, dominoes, Chinese checkers, or whatever else you can get your hands on. This is so clever for a city where people live in small apartments with relatively little outdoor space.
Stumbling upon Little Korea
Having spent a year teaching ESL in South Korea, I now crave Korean food all the time – bibimbap, kimchi bokkum bap, pajeon – you name it! That’s why I was beyond thrilled to discover that New York City has its own Little Korea. Koreatown (코리아타운) is located on West 32nd Street between Fifth and Sixth Avenues, and it really feels like you’ve set foot in Seoul. The street signs are in hangul, the bars serve soju, and there are plenty of noraebang rooms should you be in the mood for some karaoke. Sam and I found a little restaurant called Woorjip with a Korean buffet and we ended up eating there 3 times during our week in New York City. Yes, that’s how much we love our Korean food!
Getting a taste of Europe at the Cloisters
If you’re looking for some peace and solitude, then you may want to consider visiting the Cloisters in Upper Manhattan. Located in Fort Tryon Park, this place feels miles away from the bustle of the Downtown. Heavily influenced by European architecture, the building will make you feel like you’ve set foot in Spain or Italy. I particularly enjoyed the Cloisters because the place doesn’t get as many visitors as some of the other better known museums.
Spending hours walking around Central Park
There is so much to discover in Central Park! I mean, I knew it was huge before going, but I didn’t realize the scale of it until I set foot there and started walking. Central Park is more than a green space; it has numerous attractions and activities within. These include Belvedere Castle, Shakespeare Garden, Central Park Zoo, the Great Lawn, and Strawberry Fields, where people come and leave roses for John Lennon. Your best bet is to always enter from a different path so that you can see it all over time.
Eating Sylvia’s Soul Food in Harlem
Oh my goodness, the food at Sylvia’s Soul Food is mouthwatering! The restaurant was founded by Sylvia Woods, the Queen of Soul Food, and it is quite the popular establishment in Harlem. Sylvia’s clientele has included everyone from world figures like Nelson Mandela and Bill Clinton, to locals who are in the mood for some hearty home-cookin’. I had the smothered chicken with yams, macaroni, and corn bread – it was heavenly! The meat was so tender and juicy that it just broke apart with my fork. Oh, and then I also had peach cobbler pie for dessert, because you don’t come to a place like this and leave without dessert! The establishment is modest and the interior looks a bit dated, but I can see why they don’t care much about the decor when they cook the way they do. Sylvia’s is located on Lenox Avenue, between 126th and 127th Streets.
People-watching at Washington Square Park
Washington Square Park is located in Greenwich Village by the NYU campus and it’s just a really nice place to hang out. You have the Memorial Arch which is a little reminiscent of the Triumphal Arch in Paris, there’s a big fountain where kids like to splash around on a hot day, and then there is always a street musician serenading people.
Taking the Roosevelt Island Tram
Do you remember that movie scene where Spider-Man is battling the Green Goblin and he has to choose between saving a tramway full of passengers or Mary Jane who is dangling in mid-air? That Spider-Man scene was filmed on New York’s Roosevelt Island Tramway! While there isn’t much to do on Roosevelt Island, it was fun riding such an iconic tram and getting to see the city from a different perspective.
Going on the rides in Coney Island
I happened to be in New York City the same weekend the Mermaid Parade was taking place, and that was enough to lure me out to Coney Island. After watching the scandalously-clad mermaids strut their stuff down the street, Sam, Jackie, and I decided to take on the rides. Unfortunately, Jackie got stuck in the middle on most of these rides, which meant she got two earfuls of screaming anytime there was a twist or a drop. Sorry Jackie!
Checking out the New York City skyline from DUMBO
DUMBO is an acronym which stands for Down Under the Manhattan Bridge Overpass. The name alone makes this place worth a visit! This former industrial area is now home to loft apartments, design stores, art galleries, and trendy restaurants – plus you get some killer views of the Manhattan Bridge! P.S. There are some amazing pizzerias in this neighbourhood.
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Plan Your Perfect NYC Week: Tips, Routes, Eats, Views & More!
Quick Itineraries You Can Steal
Day-by-Day Classic (3 Days)
Day 1 – Midtown + Elevated Green
- Morning: High Line stroll (start at Hudson Yards and wander south). Detour for coffee and people-watching.
- Midday: Bryant Park board games + a peek into the NYPL reading room (quiet magic).
- Afternoon: Grand Central (ceiling constellations!), snack at the food concourse; swing by Rockefeller Center.
- Sunset: Choose an observation deck (see comparison below).
- Dinner: Koreatown (we did Woorijip thrice because bibimbap cravings are real).
Day 2 – Parks, Art & Soul Food
- Morning: Central Park meander—enter from a new gate each time (Belvedere Castle → Shakespeare Garden → Strawberry Fields).
- Midday: The Met or MoMA (pick one to avoid museum burnout).
- Late Lunch: Harlem at Sylvia’s (smothered chicken forever) or a neighborhood café.
- Evening: Washington Square Park for buskers + arch at golden hour; dinner in Greenwich Village.
Day 3 – Across the River
- Morning: Subway to DUMBO; snap Manhattan Bridge framed by red-brick warehouses; amble Brooklyn Bridge Park.
- Lunch: Slice tour (NYC rite of passage).
- Afternoon: Roosevelt Island Tram (Spider-Man vibes), then cool off in Fort Tryon Park + The Cloisters for medieval serenity.
- Evening: Coney Island rides or boardwalk sunset if you’re feeling playful.
A Chill Brooklyn Day (Low Crowd, High Cute)
Start in Brooklyn Heights (Promenade views), brunch in Cobble Hill, browse Carroll Gardens boutiques, laze on the lawn at Domino Park, then hop over to Williamsburg for vintage shops and sunset by East River State Park.
Rainy-Day Rescue Plan
The Met Cloisters → Subway Art Safari (14th St–8th Ave mosaics; Fulton Center’s Sky Reflector-Net) → Chelsea Market grazing → MoMA quick hits → tea + scones somewhere cozy.
Food & Drink Playbook (Because NYC is Best Eaten)
Neighborhood Nibbles we loved:
- Koreatown (32nd St): casual buffets, late-night bites, matcha everything; try a noraebang if you’re brave.
- Harlem: soul food institutions + live music bars.
- Greenwich/West Village: tiny trattorias, jazz basements, gelato windows.
- DUMBO & Brooklyn Heights: espresso, bakeries, and pizza with skyline views.
Iconic Bites & Where to Find Them
- Bagel + schmear: classic corner bakeries (order like a local: “Everything with scallion, toasted”).
- Slice: fold, lean, and don’t overthink—if the line is long, it’s probably good.
- Black & white cookie: cakey, nostalgic, perfect park snack.
- Halal cart combo: street-side comfort; grab extra white sauce.
- Cheesecake: share one, trust me.
Coffee + Tea Breaks
- Bryant Park kiosks (board game bonus), indie cafés in the Village, and riverfront coffee in DUMBO. For tea lovers, there’s always a tucked-away salon within a 10-minute walk if you need quiet.
Views & Vibes: Best Lookouts Compared
Deck / Spot | Best For | Why You’ll Love It | Consider |
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Top of the Rock (Rockefeller Center) | Classic skyline with Empire State front-and-center | Open terraces, great at golden hour | Popular—book ahead |
Empire State Building | Old-school romance | Art Deco icon; nighttime sparkle | Windy; lines without timed tix |
One World Observatory | Downtown drama & harbor | Floor-to-ceiling glass, Statue glimpses | Fully enclosed; reflections in photos |
Edge (Hudson Yards) | Glass-floor thrill | Triangular terrace jutting into sky | Windy; can feel crowded |
SUMMIT One Vanderbilt | Mirror-shiny art-meets-view | Trippy reflections, playful spaces | Bright—bring sunnies; dress accordingly! |
FREE: DUMBO & Brooklyn Heights Promenade | Budget views | Postcard skyline, ample benches | Go early/late for fewer crowds |
FREE: Staten Island Ferry | Lady Liberty on a dime | 25 minutes each way, open decks | It’s transit—no lingering |
Parks & Walks Worth the Steps
- Central Park Loops: Do short themed loops—Castles & Gardens (Belvedere → Shakespeare) or Water & Bridges (The Pond → Bow Bridge → The Lake).
- High Line: Go early to enjoy the plantings and art without the mid-day parade.
- Fort Tryon & The Cloisters: Medieval chill, Hudson River breezes, and wildflowers.
- Brooklyn Bridge Park: Lawns, piers, playgrounds, public art, and pizza within arm’s reach.
Photo Timing Sweet Spots
- Dawn on Brooklyn Bridge (uncrowded, pink light).
- Late afternoon in DUMBO (soft side-light).
- Golden hour at Washington Square Park (buskers + fountain sparkles).
- Blue hour from Brooklyn Heights Promenade (city lights flick on—chef’s kiss).
Getting Around Without Losing Your Mind
- Tap & Go: Subways and buses accept contactless payment (OMNY). No need to buy a physical card unless you want unlimited rides.
- Google/Citymapper: Subway entrances can be sneaky; these apps save sanity.
- Ferries: East River Ferry connects DUMBO/Williamsburg/34th St with skyline views.
- Citi Bike: Great for waterfront paths; avoid Midtown rush if you’re new.
- Walk Lanes: On narrow sidewalks, adopt the “move with purpose” shuffle; step aside before stopping for photos. New Yorkers will love you for it.
Micro-Hacks
- Enter from different Central Park gates each visit—feels like new parks every time.
- For Times Square, dip in after a show, dip out quickly—no need to linger.
- Restrooms: Museums, hotel lobbies (polite ask), Bryant Park, large bookstores.
Seasonal Cheat Sheet & What to Pack
Season | Vibe & Temps | Pros | Cons | Pack This |
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Spring (Mar–May) | Cool–mild; blossoms in April | Flowers, fewer crowds than summer | Showers, temp swings | Light jacket, compact umbrella |
Summer (Jun–Aug) | Warm–hot, humid | Long days, outdoor movies & concerts | Heatwaves, queues | Refillable bottle, sunscreen, hat |
Fall (Sep–Nov) | Crisp, golden | Foliage, festivals, ideal walking temps | Popular (Oct weekends) | Layers, comfy boots |
Winter (Dec–Feb) | Cold, festive lights | Holiday magic, museum days | Snow/ice, short daylight | Warm coat, gloves, traction shoes |
Neighborhood Snapshots (Add One to Each Day)
- Greenwich/West Village: Brownstones, jazz bars, tiny trattorias, Washington Square.
- Harlem: Gospel brunches, soul food, historic rowhouses, Marcus Garvey Park.
- Lower East Side/Chinatown: Dumplings, delis, street art, indie galleries.
- DUMBO/Brooklyn Heights: Cobblestones + skyline; Promenade sunset.
- Williamsburg: Thrift/vintage, waterfront parks, buzzy brunches.
- Astoria (Queens): Greek bakeries, global eats, Museum of the Moving Image.
- Flushing (Queens): Food paradise for Chinese, Taiwanese, and beyond.
- Bronx (Arthur Avenue): Old-school Italian shops; bring a tote for pastries.
- Staten Island North Shore: Ferry views + lighthouse peeks; quiet promenades.
Budgeting & Passes (Do You Need One?)
Option | Good For | Why It Helps | Watch Out For |
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CityPASS | First-timers hitting 4–5 biggies | Bundled discounts, skip-the-line at select spots | Fixed list; plan days to maximize |
Go City Explorer | Mix-and-match types | Pick 2–10 attractions; flexible | Some premium items need reservations |
No Pass | Slow travel, mostly free sights | Total freedom | Pay à la carte; book popular spots early |
Rule of thumb: If you’ll do ≥3 paid attractions in ≤3 days, a pass can save money and time. Otherwise, go à la carte and lavish your budget on food (no regrets).
Free (or Almost Free) NYC
- Staten Island Ferry (Statue views)
- Brooklyn Heights Promenade, High Line (always free)
- Bryant Park activities (chess, pétanque, winter ice rink—fee for skates)
- Chelsea galleries (open afternoons; peek between High Line stops)
- Public library & churches (architecture calm)
- Pay-what-you-wish windows at certain museums (check current policies)
- Outdoor movies & concerts in summer (parks across the city)
Handy Checklists
Pre-Trip
- ☐ Time-entry reservations for museums/decks
- ☐ Broadway/Off-Broadway tickets (rush/lottery if flexible)
- ☐ Airport transfer strategy set (train/shuttle/rideshare)
- ☐ Restaurant short-list by neighborhood
- ☐ Comfy shoes already broken in
Daypack
- ☐ Water bottle
- ☐ Compact umbrella/sunscreen (season-dependent)
- ☐ Power bank + cable
- ☐ Tissues/hand sanitizer
- ☐ Cash for small bites, cards for most else
First-Timer Photo Shotlist
- Brooklyn Bridge at dawn; DUMBO archway; Promenade at blue hour; Central Park Bow Bridge; Washington Square Arch; High Line murals; skyline from the tram; Coney Island neon.
New York City Trip FAQ
How many days do I need for a first visit?
Three full days let you taste Midtown icons, Central Park + a museum, and a Brooklyn/Queens jaunt. A week is dreamy—you can slow down, add The Cloisters and Coney Island, and leave room for spontaneous detours.
What’s the best time of year to come?
Fall is gold (literally), spring blossoms are lovely, summer bursts with outdoor events (but can be toasty), and December is twinkly and festive. If crowds worry you, aim for shoulder weeks: late April–early May or late September–mid-October midweek.
Which observation deck should I choose?
For the “Empire State in your photo” shot, go Top of the Rock. For harbor views, One World. For glass-floor thrills, Edge. For mirrored art-meets-view, SUMMIT. If you love vintage romance, Empire State at night sparkles.
Is the subway safe and easy to use?
It’s the fastest way to get around. Use contactless tap (OMNY), follow signs, and ride in busier cars at off-hours. Keep your phone zipped away when you’re near the platform edge and you’ll be fine.
What’s the easiest way to see the Statue of Liberty?
If you want to land on Liberty Island and climb the pedestal/crown, book timed tickets well in advance. If you just want great views, ride the Staten Island Ferry (free), then hop back on to return.
Do I need a city pass?
If you’re hitting 3–5 paid attractions in a short window, a pass can save money and time. If your plan is parks, neighborhoods, free views, and one museum, pay à la carte and invest in excellent meals.
Where should I stay as a first-timer?
Base where you’ll spend evenings: Midtown/Times Square is central to transit (convenient but busy), Greenwich/West Village is charming and walkable, Upper West Side is relaxed near parks/museums, and DUMBO/Brooklyn Heights offers skyline romance with easy subway links.
How do I avoid crowds at popular spots?
Go early (High Line/bridges at sunrise), pick weekdays, and make timed reservations. In museums, start on the upper floors and work down while the masses gather at the entrance.
Any ideas for a kid-friendly day?
Start at Central Park Zoo + playgrounds, ride the carousel, grab a slice, and cap it with a ferry ride or Coney Island (gentle rides abound). Plenty of bathrooms, lots of snacks—everyone wins.
What should I pack for summer heat?
Breathable layers, sunscreen, hat, refillable bottle, and comfy shoes. Plan indoor pockets midday (museums, long lunch, naps) and enjoy your big walks early and late.
How do I get from the airports to Manhattan?
From JFK: JFK AirTrain + LIRR or subway; or rideshare/taxis. From LaGuardia: city buses connect to the subway; rideshare/taxi is quickest. From Newark: AirTrain Newark + NJ Transit to Penn Station; or rideshare. Choose based on luggage/time of day.
What’s a good souvenir that isn’t “I ❤️ NY”?
Food! Bagel/babka from a beloved bakery (ask for travel wrap), small-batch hot sauce, local roasted coffee, a print from a Chelsea gallery, or a vintage postcard from a flea market. Your future self will thank you during breakfast.
Looks like you guys had a great time! There’s this amazing little ice cream parlour at the end of Brooklyn bridge. I walked the span of the bridge under the blazing sun and I swear that ice cream saved my life.
There’s also the best BBQ I’ve ever eaten in Harlem called “Dinosaur Bar-B-Que” Im surprised I could walk again after tucking into their burgers. It was immense.
I missed the ice cream parlour! I also walked across the bridge when it was a scorching summer day, and all I wanted was shaaaade!!!
I also found that I didn’t click with New York when I visited a few years ago! I would like to revisit to see if I would feel differently about it now, though. I like the idea of hanging out in green spaces and exploring different neighbourhoods.
That’s why I like revisiting places. Sometimes the city you hated as a teenager takes on a completely different life once you’re a young adult. 🙂
New York is one of my favourite cities and there is still so much I haven’t seen. I would love to go on the tramway, and also check out Coney Island. *sigh*…makes me want to go back sooner than later!
Coney Island is a lot of fun! Although, if you want to experience the rides and have more of a relaxed time on the beach, it’s best to go when there aren’t any special events going on. The place was packed during the Mermaid Parade.
Hi Audrey, I love that this post focusses on great NYC activities besides ‘the touristy’ things we already know! I also did the statue of liberty and the big museums, but next time I would definitely like to explore the other neighborhoods such as Brooklyn :)!
I hope you get to revisit, Manouk! Brooklyn is a pretty cool area – plus they have the best view of the NYC skyline.
Yes, Brooklyn does have a beautiful view on NYC skyline . . . but have you seen it from the NJ side? I live in Weehawken/West New York, NJ and the view is super incredible!!
Wish I could post a pic here.
I’ve been to New York a few times but only for short visits. And while the main attractions (i.e. the Empire State Building, the Statue of Liberty, etc.) are things that I really enjoyed, I also just loved exploring areas in Brooklyn and Central Park. But there’s so much left for me to see there!! It looks like you made a fantastic use of your time there! This post makes me want to go back 😉
I’ve been to NYC for a couple of short trips, and it sounds like I had a similar experience to your first trip. I’m thinking about heading back there to explore more, so your guide is perfect! The High Line seems especially cool, and DUMBO – I love taking photos!
The High Line is definitely worth checking out – especially early in the morning before it gets too busy. There are a few little cafes towards the end of the line, which means you can stop for a cool drink after the walk.
I’ve never been there, but always wanted to go and not do the ‘Times Square’-type stuff, so this is a fantastic guide!
I really wanted to walk along the Highline when I was last in NY but I ran out of time 🙁
I don’t feel like I really clicked with New York when I visited either but the things I loved were the Highline, Washington Square Park (there was a flash mob marriage proposal when I was there!), Central Park, Brooklyn Heights Promenade, the beautiful walk up apartments in Brooklyn Heights and Greenwich Village, Brooklyn Flea, Walking over the Brooklyn Bridge and Brooklyn Bridge Park and Williamsburg for amazing food. Seems there was actually quite a few things I loved about New York!
That’s so cool that you got to see a flash mob proposal! I hope she said ‘yes’. 🙂
So glad you made it to Harlem and parts of Brooklyn. New York can be really overwhelming if you’re just there for the tourist sights. I really like walking around Madison Square – it’s very New York in the sense that there’s places to shop, good food all over, a little bit of greenery, and iconic buildings right in front of you. One of my favorite “touristy” things to do is take the ferry to Staten Island on a sunny day. You pass by the Statue of Liberty, but mostly it’s nice because you get this gorgeous uninterrupted view of the skyline and the water is blue and beautiful.
Thanks for sharing those less touristy attractions. I will definitely remind myself of them when I’m going to visit NYC for the first time cause I think I’d enjoy it more then. The cloister doesn’t look like it’s in New York City. I love those urban escapes in big cities.
I’ve never been to New York City (planning on it though!) and I would totally spend an entire day in Little Korea eating All The Food.
The way you described your first NY experience was exactly how I felt about Paris. Next time, I’d love to relax more and take it easier. I love your suggestions for NYC, especially playing board games in the park! I’m a super dork so I love doing stuff like that :). I’d love to ride the rides at Coney Island too!
I visited NYC for the first time in January this year with my boyfriend. We hit as many main attractions as we could in our long weekend. I did not fall in love with the city like so many other people I know who have visited, but this post gives me some great ideas to try to give NYC another chance! (Maybe going when it’s warmer out will help too)
New York does look gorgeous. I like cities that have plenty of spaces to walk and discover things on impulse. Bryant Park looks so sophisticated.
Definitely my favorite places were the high line and cloisters,. They were really peaceful and interesting !
Great article! Next time you’re here, you’ll have to come to Astoria. We have New York’s oldest beer garden and some of the best Greek food!
I’m so glad I got to see you guys when you were here, scary rides and all!
Great post! I’ve always wanted to go to NYC, but never really knew what I would do there. Except for the Green Line, it’s been on my radar ever since I heard about it. But the other things you described seem really nice too, so it is a great reference for a future trip to NYC!
I can’t believe I’ve never been to New York, not yet at least. I’d love to go though and perhaps spend some time in the Little Korea of which I didn’t know the existence.
New York does look gorgeous. Bryant Park looks so sophisticated. I like cities that have plenty of spaces to walk and discover things on impulse.this is a very nice place and i like it.
Great post Audrey. I always love NY. Great and beautiful to visit.
I have not been to New York before, my friend who lives there said it’s very noisy city. The park and the bridge are beautiful. I will definitely visit one day!
You certainly got a lot done during your week in NYC and glad you guys got to ride the LI tram and visit the Cloisters, a lot of people miss both of those! 😀